Thread:Heart2Heart Online (2)

I'm intrigued by this session and interested in the "pattern language" or elements that would go into creating environments in which people are able to relax and "be themselves", to create deep connections with each other and explore conversations that are truly meaningful. What kinds of things are important in the creation of this kind of space? Are the aesthetics of the environment in which you gather of key import or value? The presence of imagery and color? The options available or ease with which you can navigate the communication tools? The warmth of your welcome as you enter the space as a newcomer? The frequency and/or tenor of the conversation itself? Does having a clear purpose for being there make a difference? Do agreed-upon "rules" for interaction help or hinder? What are the intangibles and the things you can't plan for that either support depth connections or inhibit them?

What are the elements that contribute to a space where "authenticity" is no more of an issue online than it is if you are not online? Does sharing your "real name" make it easier or harder to be "yourself"? What kind of possibilities does the online medium allow that are not available in face to face interactions? Are there things that are impossible online?

What kinds of dialogic models, either online or off, support depth of connection and heart-felt sharing? Where do we go for models? What are the specific challenges of the online medium, and how do we translate what we know in one medium into another?

My own most interesting work is in creating the online environments that can hold and support these kinds of deeper connections between people. I'd love to share what I know and learn from what others are doing.

Please let me know where this session will be held and I will be there.

Amy Lenzo: amy@beautydialogues.com